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A lengthy rant ahead; many different people & situations compiled into one post. Basically the types of people that tick me off.I can’t stand people who think that they’re always right. And I certainly do not appreciate those who keep telling me what to do and what I should not do. I will have a very strong urge to unleash the sarcastic monster in me.

And why do some people try so hard to impress or to fit in, it will only backfire and drift those around you away. At least that’s what I feel. What’s so difficult about being yourself? Have some confidence.

There are also those who give no contribution but full of complaints like a bullet train. Don’t make it seem like you are being forced into something you don’t want to do, we live in a free country so there’s no such thing as feeling obliged to do what you dislike. Stop being so calculative and whiny.

I can’t tolerate people who are always trying to fetch sympathy. You don’t have to go on and on about how “unfortunate” you are; I feel sorry for you but when you keep repeating yourself it gets annoying. I’m sorry if I’m not that compassionate.

I do not know how some people can be so selfish, I may be a lot of things but I will never turn my back on my family. I witnessed something in the past week which made my heart wrench. I feel sorry for people like them because without family, you are nobody & you have nothing.

And certain people.. one word: slavish. Get your own. Turning into a copy does not make you cool or whatever it is you’re aiming for. In fact it makes you a laughing stock.

Do everyone a favour and buy yourself some self-esteem.

Most of the time I shun altercation because it impinges on the people around me whom I care for. Most of the time I let idiocy pass by because it is futile trying to argue with an idiot.

But I have no qualms making myself clear if someone goes over the boundary with me. Keeping mum does not mean I agree with whatever is said, being quiet does not mean I think you are right.

I am nice I try to be nice but sometimes certain people are just unbearable.

Today was the first time I felt truly satisfied with my performance at the gym after three months. I missed gym for 3 weeks during the CNY period and it was such a waste. So I am very determined to make full use of what I’m paying so much for every month. Another change to my schedule so I have like terribly long breaks to kill and that’s when I’m gonna hit the gym. The purpose of me joining in the first place was never to build my body in any way, but to increase my stamina and fitness.

Just one thing, it’s like whatever I work off at the gym, I gain them back right after. Yeah tell me about it. I get really hungry after working out. And before starting my work out today, I had a cup of sago with gula melaka+santan. Then another one after the work out. One of my friends said it could serve as my protein shake hahaha. Sago is like my favourite dessert! Actually make that number 2, ice cream still tops the list heh. I was so excited when I saw sago in cups at this cafe located just outside of the gym! And it was delicious. The only other place I can ever find good sago is Madam Kwan’s.

Okay enough of gym and dessert. You know what’s one thing that REALLY aggravates me? People who talk nonstop in class while the lecturer is teaching. Talking nonstop is infuriating enough, but in class? I mean, how rude can you be la? If it’s just a question or two, it’s tolerable because most human beings are not capable of keeping quiet for a long period of time. But when you still keep talking even after several glares from other students, I’m sorry but I think you’re just plain stupid. And the lecturer was too nice to say anything because I’m very sure she noticed. In fact I think the entire class did.

This guy and a girl were talking without pause at all, one after another. They were not speaking loudly, neither were they whispering. More like lower tone of communicating and people who were sitting nearby can actually get this “buzzing” sensation in the ears. That’s what I felt. I was SO disturbed at one point I was considering if I should just yell “Can you please shut the hell up?!!”. After a good ten-minute conversation, they finally stopped. It felt like world peace.

And then there was this girl who sat front row, she came into class late and after she had settled down with her books and pens, she opened a box of Rocky sticks and started nibbling on them. So disrespectful. Sweets/candies that are small enough to be popped into your mouth without being noticed is still okay because it doesn’t distract attention. Again, this lecturer is just too nice. I felt bad for her. But she should have said something.

I mean, there are some things you don’t do at certain places and what mentioned above are certainly two of them. It’s like, smoking in an elevator, or peeing in a flower pot in a mall. COMMON SENSE PEOPLE.

Typing this while having mask for my hair and face, talk about making full use of every minute in a day hahah. And having pomelo, so so nice. I love pomelos.

I just watched the video of Taylor Swift’s You Belong To Me and omg the ending is like so sweet! They both had a paper with I Love You written on it. Awwwww.

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You know, I don’t know why some people choose to come up with lies to get attention. That ain’t the way you make friends. You make up all these beyond super stories so that people will feel for you and hopefully like you. Like, whaaattt? Truth is they just feel sorry for you, trying to be nice.

Newsflash cupcake, no one wants to listen to all your sad sappy stories, especially when they are all made up. And then when the whole thing you’re covering up blows off, what happens next? You lose your friends, your so-called friends. Do you really think you can buy friends by doing this?

Your stories are amusing, some massive crazy balls shit. Gotta give you some credit for creativity.

And one thing that annoys me to the core, people who pretend like they know me. Coming up with all these drama-mama and saying things like you’ve known me for years, passing judgments like you’ve talked to me before. Let alone talk, I’ve never even met you.

Not done. There are also people who don’t write at their on pace and way. So desperate till you gotta copy the way people write? Where is your dignity!! Talk about originality, geez.

And there are even those who can be so outright dumb. They misinterpret what’s written in black and white, then add their own spices into it, and spread it. You should be ashamed of yourself.

I’m no angel, but so are you because no one is. I know there are people out there who’d like to see only the good in people. I’d like to as well but some people, they’re just not worth it. And I’d like to believe that no matter how bad a person is, at some point the good in them always overpowers the bad.


One shot, that’s all you’ve got.

I enjoy driving through Penchala Link very much. It gives me peace. It allows me to think and there’s no pressure at all.

When it comes to driving, I never really had much patience in me at first. It was dad and the Garbage Truck Law that made me wiser. Dad would always advise me to give way to people, and he doesn’t really encourage the use of the car honk unless necessary. The Garbage Truck Law taught me how to be more giving and it is us that actually benefit from it. The satisfaction and sense of contentment when you know you are being kind to others.

But I’ve noticed so many things about Malaysian drivers. Is it such a hassle to turn your indicators/signals on when you want to change lanes? It’s the least you can do instead of just swerving into another lane without any notice. That’s how accidents happen and then you go all “you should have seen me coming!” I’d give you the benefit of doubt, say your signals are out of service. You can always give a hand gesture, no?

If you have your signals on, I’d always give you way. But most of them don’t bother saying thanks, they don’t even look at you. Not that I mind, I don’t expect anything in return. But it’s the courtesy you see. I always say thanks when I’m given way on the road. You should try it, I’m sure you’d like it when people do the same to you.

If you have no signals on and you try to squeeze your car in front of me, then I’m sorry I wouldn’t give you way no matter what. When there is a long queue, you come from the back and try to make your way in right at the front of the line, that’s already bad enough. But plus without your signals on, that’s just plain rude.

And people who double park. I get it, looking for a parking can be a bitch. Like how people double park in front of Nirwana’s? That’s because they’re gonna be in Nirwana’s, or a shop on the same row. You don’t double park at Nirwana’s then go off to La Bodega or something now, do you? Because that’s just plain stupid and you can expect to see your car with scratches when you come back. Especially when your car is disturbing the traffic and it causes all kinds of chaos. While you on the other hand, is having a good time being ignorant.

Then there are the pedestrians. You don’t walk when the light is red. That’s why there are traffic lights to guide you. You don’t expect cars to stop for you so that you can make your grand walk across the road. You don’t own the road, and we don’t owe you anything okay?

What really pissed me off was when I had to stop to let this middle-aged man walk pass in front of my car, in the middle of the road. And while he took his slow lovely walk, he could manage a cock stare and there were no thanks gesture. I’m thankful I was still sane and did not run over him, because he totally deserve something like that happening to him.

I’m not even done yet. You know how you sometimes wait for a car to come out of its parking so that you can have it, but you wait in front rather than behind that car? And then some sort of jackass comes from behind and just go right in and takes your parking before you even have the time to release your brakes to reverse. Where are your bloody manners man?! How would you like it if someone does that to you?

Oh, and I can’t stand motorcycle riders who drive right in the middle of the road. If motorbikes were meant to be in the middle of the road, there would have been a mini thin road meant for them in the middle of the road. There are no mini roads for you guys, so please proceed to the side of the road and ride safely okay? It’s annoying enough when you do so, but maybe you did so without realising it. So when a car is driving close up behind you, you should get the idea and move aside, not carry on having your little slow evening ride.

Lastly, call me OCD or whatever but I also can’t stand cars who don’t keep to their lanes. Like when I’m in a car and the driver is moving out of the line a little, I get really uneasy. I mean, the lines are there for a reason, right? Hmm, you tell me.

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You know what type of people I loathe most? Those who can’t keep their mouths shut when they should.

You know how some people just can’t stop talking? They just keep talking and talking and talking, bragging about what they know, what they have, and what they’re capable of. And everyone else on the table has no choice but to sit and listen. They want the world to think greatly of them but the verity is, everyone detests them.

And you know how some people just want to add salt into an existing wound? They know they should not be saying things that will hurt a person even more, but they can’t resist it. It gives them some sort of satisfaction, I must say. Maybe it makes them feel superior as though they’ve achieved something big by causing discomfort to others.

Also, some people who just can’t seem to mind their own businesses? They pry and spread stories that have nothing to do with them, just for f**k sake. They probably have nothing better to do because their lives suck so they seek excitements by placing their butts into people’s private lives. It must give them thrills, sad people.

All these people, they should learn when and how to SHUT UP. It’s so simple yet so many people can’t seem to do so.

No this is not an angry post, just merely stating my opinion :)

The end.

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